What should a girl do to make up with a guy?

Quarrels bring not only negativity: they allow you to put the relationship “on the shelves”, helping to understand the chosen one. For long alliances, small shake-ups are not fatal, but at the very beginning of the relationship it is better to avoid them. We return relationships and make peace with loved ones.

We decided to make contact - get ready for compromises: without tantrums, scandals and tears. Analyze the situation, identify the cause of the scandal and decide what can be done to avoid quarrels in the future.

Determine the purpose of reconciliation: to prove the case or to upgrade the relationship? The first option is doomed to failure: there are no winners in the battle of two truths.

If I'm to blame

1. Ask for forgiveness. This is where the world begins.
2. Make a gift. Not only ladies need pleasant trifles - presents can cheer even bearded unsmiling bikers.
3. Prepare a surprise: invite his friends or relatives to visit, cook your favorite dish.
4. Draw up a peace treaty - in the truest sense of the word. Describe your sin, report that you understand your guilt, and give the guy a signature. Humor can save almost any situation.

What is the temperament of your chosen one? If the guy is hot with words, wait a bit, let him cool down. Come ahead of time - he simply will not listen.

If he is guilty

Use the correct quarrel technique:

• look for a solution to the problem, and do not chew it into components;
• do not run away from finding out, openly express what you think;
• do not hit in the stomach: memories of past sins will not solve the difficulty that has arisen;
• collaborate and seek consensus.

At the heart of every scandal is a problem. Don't leave it unresolved and don't put it off for a long time.

If he does not make contact after a quarrel

Write SMS and call, but do not overdo it: obsession is not held in high esteem. If it's really bad, write the guy a real letter and mail it. Do not act on him through his mother, brother, friends and other relatives - this is called open manipulation, and no one likes to feel that you are being manipulated.

People who are ready to conduct diplomatic negotiations even after terrible disasters, who are able to switch from the "offended" mode to the "listening" mode in time, are extremely rare shots. Influence the guy with the help of logic: if now you can’t do without quarrels, then what will happen later?

It also happens that guys get into a pose: they are selfish, narcissistic and insanely proud. Do you need such a "princess"?

If he doesn't want to talk to you

With complete disregard, you must achieve a personal meeting at any cost: tell him that you want to return his thing to him. Do not try to meet in a company or when the family will be at home: in order to get a heart-to-heart conversation, you must be together. During a date, manage anger: if you feel that you are approaching the line - go out for a minute and calm down.

When you can’t meet in any way, connect your friends if you are not afraid of his reaction: let him be invited to visit, and you will be there. The guy is not going anywhere - he will have to go to the conversation. But such tricks are fraught with consequences: you cannot achieve love through deception.

Better turn on the fantasy. Do you know his usual route to work or school? Print out some banners with your photos and paste them so that he can see them for sure.

I want to reconcile with my ex-boyfriend after breaking up

How you broke up plays a big role here. If the initiator was a guy, find out the reason and try to eliminate it. But before that, find out how your chosen one lives now, if he has found a new companion.

If you yourself abandoned him, you will have to try: wounded pride will make itself felt more than once. Sincere repentance will help. Say that you did it in your hearts out of great resentment, that you were stupid and unreasonable and were afraid to come earlier, because you thought he would reject you.

Does your partner often listen to the radio? Go to a radio station and send love through radio waves.

If the guy does not want to put up, what to do?

Find out why you are not accepted. Make good arguments. And then decide whether you are ready to change for the sake of this person or whether you should let him go.

Don't jump to conclusions for the other person. Something is not clear - ask in an unobtrusive manner. Like “I thought you were offended because I didn’t walk you to work?” Let him speak.

How to make peace with a guy in contact?

Correspondence is not the best option in order to make peace. You need to look into the eyes of a person, you need to touch him so that the spark that made you be together returns again. If there is no choice, write briefly, succinctly and sincerely.

Give him stickers: some bear or a hamster, and say that they specifically came to his page to reconcile you. Include innocence, simplicity and affection.

Ask all his friends on a certain day and a certain time to write him a message with one text, for example: “Sasha! Tanya loves you and is waiting! Such a bombardment will not go unnoticed.

What to write by SMS to make peace?

If you're at a loss and can't apologize while looking into his eyes, summarize all your feelings in one message. Don't want to be banal? Report that during the cleaning they found his sock and take him hostage. Humor is a great power.

In a dream, I reconciled with an ex-boyfriend, what does this mean?

Dreams draw stories from our subconscious. If a former lover had a dream, it means that he is firmly rooted under the crust of the brain. If the dream coincided with another scandal, analyze it: the subconscious often tries to give advice in a veiled form.

History from life

Hello dear girls! I don't know how to deal with a guy... I live and breathe this man.... What have I not done to make peace with him! But he ignores my calls, letters, messages. I ring the doorbell, it doesn't open. Even though I'm sure he's at home. I want peace in our relations with him!

Why did we quarrel?

He was jealous of my cousin, who came to visit us from afar! I tried to make peace with my beloved, I tried to explain everything intelligibly and honestly. The result is zero! He doesn't believe me! And probably not going to believe.

I had different thoughts on this. It even seemed to me that he was specifically looking for a reason to quarrel! I didn’t want to think so, but he alone is to blame for my such thoughts!

How it all started...

Igorek (my boy) accompanied me home. We stopped at my entrance (according to tradition). After a few seconds, I noticed that we were not alone. A beautiful foreign car stopped near the curb. It was my favorite song. I smiled and began to peer into the glass, where the driver's seat was located. The man sitting behind the wheel slowly opened the window (as if he felt all the “shrillness” of my gaze).

After about three seconds, the owner of the mysterious car left the salon. I threw myself on his neck. The meeting, of course, was accompanied by enthusiastic and joyful squeals. A brother came to me, whom I had not seen for more than four years!

My boyfriend, of course, got angry and left. I was glad that he did not start fighting with my dear guest - a relative. I told my chosen one many times that Ilya is not only a brother, whom I love and respect very much. I have always considered this man my best friend. He has helped me so many times! Once even saved (in the truest sense of the word) from terrible strangers who tried to drag me into a minibus. I don’t know (but I imagine with horror) what would have happened to me if not for Ilyusha!

I discovered the “disappearance” of a loved one when I was about to introduce him to my little brother. At first I thought that he had left so as not to interfere with our conversation. But telephone "ignoring" put everything in its place. When I heard long beeps, I realized that something irreparable had happened. Perhaps I chose the wrong word now, but in those minutes it seemed to me that the situation could no longer be changed.

My brother offered to help, but I flatly refused it. We ourselves must deal with our "misunderstandings"! It's so nice that my brother is worried about me, worried about me ..... As if he were my own, not my cousin. By the way, I also have a native. I love him very much, but we are not as friendly with him as with Ilya.

As a child, I was in love with my brother. I was then only nine years old! And then I already understood that there could be nothing between relatives. We've just always been good friends. There is nothing wrong. I really hoped that my boyfriend and my best friend (brother) would become friends. Now it seems impossible to me.

I couldn't sleep for a long time...

I hoped that I could come up with an effective way to reconcile with the guy I adore. Not invented! But I saw a dream that looked like a real movie! I will tell its content. And it will become easier for me, and you (perhaps) will discover something interesting for yourself.

I'm sitting in my room, on the edge of the bed.... I look out the window... A small screen appeared on the window glass, resembling an ordinary photo frame. In this "frame" I clearly saw the silhouette of my beloved. He looked at me, smiled, held out a wedding ring. I tried to take it, smiling back. But, so to speak, woke up at the wrong time! I made several attempts to fall asleep again to finish the dream, but nothing happened (despite all my sincere efforts).

Believe it or not, I was waiting for the next night…. In the hope that "sleep is a hint" will return to me. Unfortunately, I do not remember anything from what I dreamed. There is a suspicion that I did not dream that night.

Beloved and did not think to leave my thoughts alone! The brother left, once again asking for forgiveness. And why forgive him if he is absolutely not to blame for anything ?! I'm to blame! I usually foresee the day when my adored relative is due to arrive. And then….. Nothing! Emptiness! I don't know why my intuition failed me (this time). Here you see…. There are already contradictions! Then I said that my boyfriend is to blame for everything .... And now I blame myself and my intuition for everything .... Love does such things to me that I get scared for myself!

Some friends, knowing about my gift of foresight, said this: “someone else is destined for you!”. They brought it to me in prose, and I "remade" their opinions into poetry. Not on purpose! It just happened….

What should I do?

I do not need anybody! I want to be with the person I love so much…. Why am I not worthy of such happiness?! Why didn't I deserve it?!

What would I do if I "got" in his place? Would have listened anyway! But Igor did not do this.

You know, it seems to me that someone “jinxed” me or cursed me! Well, how else to call it, if there is no place for luck in my personal life? My previous novels ended in a "similar" way. At first everything went well, but then…. Either they suspected me of treason, then they found a message on the phone (with “incorrect” content) ....

And about two years ago, my fate was "decided" by a trolley bus that did not arrive on schedule! He arrived half an hour late. I tried to tell the truth about this "trouble", but Denis (I remember exactly that was his name) did not believe me. He decided that I was cruelly deceiving him, that I needed him only for the sake of money. I suggested to Denya to look at the site (in the reviews, many people expressed their dissatisfaction with the "inaccurate" arrival of transport). He did just that! But after a fairly long period of time, when we were no longer a couple. He ran to ask for forgiveness, showered me with flowers, burst into tears. But it was too late. I was with another and could not forgive his distrust of me.

I look at the photo of my beloved and pray that we will be together again!

I promise that if this happens, then I will make any sacrifice! I will give my own life for our truce (if necessary)! I swear! I need it like a heartbeat....

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