How to reconcile with a guy? What to write to a guy to make peace?
There are no ideal relationships. Every couple has conflicts sooner or later. But a quarrel is not yet a reason for parting. So that your relationship does not end, there are many different ways to make peace with your soulmate.
Psychologists say that immediately after a quarrel, you should not put up. Each of you should cool down and calm down. If you do not want to personally put up with a guy, you can write him a conciliatory message or even a letter. The right words will help you make contact faster. The message should come from a pure heart, without reproaches and insults.
The letter does not need to say that he should have been the first to go to the meeting and find the right words for reconciliation. If you point out his guilt, you will not be able to reconcile. Having decided to write a romantic letter on paper, you should pay special attention to the underline: it should be neat, beautiful and even. If your handwriting does not differ in calligraphy, the letter can be typed on a computer. In your message, use only affectionate words, say what he means to you, how much you love him, etc. Be sure to apologize and write that you greatly value them and your relationship.
At the end of the letter, you can draw a small drawing in the form of hearts or put lip prints. The ideal option would be to write a letter in a beautiful postcard. It is not recommended to take poems from the Internet, because they do not reflect your feelings and thoughts, but outsiders. But if you try to compose a few lines yourself, it will be appreciated. Let the verse be not poetic and a little clumsy, but from the bottom of my heart! Another option for poems is to quote the great classics who wrote about love.
Be sure to write how you are worried about the quarrel, that the current situation hurts and is unpleasant for you.
If you decide to write a letter to a guy on social networks or send by e-mail, attach the most romantic photo where you are together to him. You can make a video or a collage of photos. Be sure to write about your feelings and add the word "I'm sorry."
If you decide to apologize via text message, it should be clearly worded, clear and short. You can write the following words: “Forgive me, I was wrong! I love”, “I am very sorry about the quarrel, please forgive me”, “I love you very much, don’t be mad at me”, etc. The main thing is to write a message sincerely and from the heart.
When you write and send a letter, all that remains is to wait. While you are waiting for an answer, you should not call the guy, ask about the letter, whether he has forgiven or is offended, whether he still loves you, etc. If a guy values \u200b\u200bthe relationship and loves you, he will not hesitate to answer. Intruding with calls and unnecessary questions, you can only aggravate the situation. In the event that the addressee ignores the letter for a long time, leaving it unanswered, you can show courage and learn about the fate of the message, discussing the further continuation of the relationship together.
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The easiest way to reconcile is to apologize. The banal words "forgive me" are sometimes decisive. Simple phrases can literally work wonders and help you be happy together again. If you feel guilty for yourself, do not hesitate and wait for the first step from the guy. Overpower yourself and apologize, because the main thing in a relationship is the ability to step over yourself and make peace in time.
Many couples, in a fit of a quarrel, say a lot of impartial words to each other, from which “cats scratch” in everyone’s soul. In this case, a simple SMS with the words "I'm sorry, I was wrong!" you won't get off. If you have greatly offended your soulmate, you can pay a young man an unexpected visit. This method of reconciliation works almost 100 percent. Even if the guy is very offended by you and does not want to talk, this method should work. He will appreciate your courage and sincerity, in any case, a young man definitely should not kick you out of his apartment. During the visit, you can calmly talk and discuss further relations.
Another way to make up with a guy is a romantic surprise. Realizing her guilt, the girl must make amends with something. In this case, the ideal option would be to arrange a candlelit evening for the young man, horseback riding, a balloon flight, etc. Many girls believe that such a manifestation of feelings should remain the prerogative of guys. It's a delusion! Any person will be pleased with a surprise, especially coming from a pure heart. With such a date, you will show your young man that you are ready to do everything for him, just to make peace and live happily. A surprise can be an inscription under the windows of his house or a huge poster. When choosing a surprise, you need to focus on the tastes of the guy, so as not to miss with an apology.
In verbal reconciliation, you need to choose the right words. Never point out a guy to his place, wrongs and shortcomings. Starting an apology with the words “Forgive me, but you were wrong” or “Why are you offended, you yourself were wrong?” You risk provoking another scandal and losing the young man forever. You no longer apologize, but accuse the guy of being wrong and try to push him to apologize, thereby humiliating and angering him.
