How to reconcile with a guy after a strong quarrel or breakup?
To make peace with a guy who does not make contact, you can use different methods. The surest way is an apology and words of sincere repentance in a personal meeting. Sometimes it is worth giving time to a young person so that his emotions cool down and he can forgive the offense inflicted. If the guy is registered on VKontakte, the option of reconciliation by correspondence is possible. For each person it is necessary to choose an individual way. It is necessary to put up only if there is a mutual desire to continue the relationship.
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How to apologize to a girl if you offended a lot
The young man does not want to communicate
The beloved declared a boycott, absolutely does not want to communicate and cuts off all attempts to make peace in the bud - this means that the situation has gone too far, and this indicates the following:
- He decided to teach his other half a lesson so that in the future she would never contradict him.
- The guy is already tired of the relationship. He had already thought more than once how to stop it, and the quarrel became a convenient excuse to put an end to it.
We need to check how serious everything is. After all, it is one thing to be sure that the offense is not serious, and the guy will gradually cool down and calm down, and it is quite another to be aware of a serious threat to the relationship. If a guy is offended and does not intend to break off relations, then he will not be able to remain silent for a long time, because he perfectly understands what this can lead to, and he himself feels very bad morally in this situation and worries about his soul mate. In this case, the girl needs to be distracted, because any loving person cannot stand a long separation and will soon take a step towards a truce.
It will be easier to make up with a guy if the girl knows his zodiac sign. To make peace with Leo, you need to explain to him the reasons for the conflict. Aquarius will not be able to take the first step towards reconciliation, so the girl will have to take the initiative. It will be easiest to make peace with Sagittarius, and Taurus will need time for his emotions to cool down.
How to make up with a girl
Reconciliation by SMS or phone
In this case, the right choice of words is of no small importance. Standard SMS in verse may seem like a great solution, but men are often annoyed by them. Throwing a guy with messages is also not worth it, one will be enough. It is advisable to describe your feelings, longing for a guy, experiences, talk about love. Sometimes one sentence is enough for reconciliation.
You can reconcile with an ex-boyfriend over the phone. You have to make sure the guy wants it. It is possible that he already has a second half or even a family and children, and all attempts at a truce will look very stupid. You need to be sincere, as open and honest as possible. Girls immediately feel lies and constraint, but men do not like to be frank and often do not understand hints.
How to get a scorpion man back
If he avoids meetings and does not pick up the phone
Definitely do not need to pursue the guy and try to specifically adjust the meeting, because men do not like obsessive girls. If a man does not pay attention to the girl's attempts to reconcile with him, and even more so publicly ignores her, then all attempts to reconcile can cause a flurry of ridicule not only from him, but also from the people around him.
Prying eyes when trying to make peace should be avoided. It is better to arrange a meeting with him in a romantic setting. This is a good place to meet. Thus, the girl will achieve a date and show the guy that he is dear to her. This will be one of the best memories. If the guy does not come, then it is likely that his feelings are insincere, and he no longer needs the girl.
If the girl realized her guilt
It is important to assess the readiness of the partner for forgiveness, carefully consider your mistakes and assess how much offended the young man is. Often, after committing a misconduct, a girl begins to try to justify herself and tries to blame the other half for what is happening. This only exacerbates the situation. At such a moment, one should not pay attention to one's pride and selfishness, otherwise there is a great risk of losing a person not only as a lover, but even as an acquaintance.
If the mistake was realized by the girl, you need to admit it without hesitation, and show the person your sincere repentance.
If the guy is to blame for the breakup, then you should not go to a truce first. Much better to wait for his reaction and see how remorseful he is.
Both sides of the conflict must learn to listen to each other, because very often the cause of a quarrel is a misunderstanding. It is likely that the problem is exaggerated, and the quarrel does not make any sense.
A truce with a guy after a breakup
Reconciliation after a breakup can be pointless, especially if the decision to break up was mutual. You need to calm down and think about the real reason for the gap. If the desire to reconcile is also mutual, then either side can take the first step.
- You need to learn to forgive. People are not perfect and everyone can make mistakes.
- You can’t be selfish, you need to learn to look at the problem through the eyes of a partner, and then it will be much easier to forgive him and earn forgiveness yourself.
- We need to say goodbye to resentment. After all, such a person is not able to forgive. He not only aggravates the situation, remembering the bad, but also harms himself and his health.
- It is important to admit your mistakes in time. A person who knows how to do this will be able to keep the situation under control, and gradually there will be fewer mistakes.
Questions about reconciliation
Couples in love often ask questions that can be answered as follows:
- 1. Why do lovers fight? Boy and girl are two different people. Everyone has their own views on life, habits, their own point of view on many issues, beliefs. The conflict arises when the above does not match, so it is important to learn how to find a compromise.
- 2. How to quarrel less often and is it possible to do without quarrels? Quarrels are even necessary. After all, it is thanks to this that people understand that they are not indifferent to each other. Over time, they will learn to restrain themselves, and there will be fewer conflicts.
- 3. Is a truce possible according to the sign of the zodiac? Many do not believe in horoscopes, so you do not need to use them as a lifesaver at any opportunity. There can be completely opposite signs together, for example, Aries and Pisces, Virgo and Scorpio. First you need to make sure that the description of the character of the beloved in the horoscope is true, often horoscopes contain a clue to his behavior.
- 4. How and what to do to make peace through social networks? Social networks are a real space for the realization of your fantasies and a good way to convey the necessary information. You can, for example, put an apology song on the page of the second half or describe all your feelings in a message. You can make a video that shows sincere remorse for your words and deeds. It is not necessary to ask for forgiveness brightly, in this case, sincerity will be quite enough. A lot of people don't like it when they post an apology on the wall for everyone to see. Much better would be to write an apology in a private message.
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The easiest way to make amends
The easiest way to apologize to a person after a big fight is to ask for forgiveness. But you must be sincere and do it on time. After all, if a person was very offended, hurt his pride, insulted, sometimes he needs time so that he can forgive the offender. If you ask for forgiveness immediately after the conflict, then there will be a flurry of reproaches, and this will only worsen the situation. We must step over our pride and pay attention to some points.
Firstly: the partner needs time to realize that the second half is dear and necessary to him. Otherwise, he will continue the quarrel, will not go towards reconciliation and will add fuel to the fire. After all, the resentment has not subsided yet, and the person will not listen to his mind.
Secondly, the person who offended will also need time. It is necessary to realize your mistake and wrongness, and only then apologize. Otherwise, all apologies will be useless. The young man will definitely feel insincerity. He can pretend not to notice and agree to a truce, but he can also respond rudely.
