Ways to make up with a guy
Not a single, even the strongest couple can do without quarrels. Conflict situations help lovers to understand the relationship and solve the problem that has arisen, look at each other in a new way and even refresh feelings.
You had a fight with your young man, and the realization of this lies on the heart of a heavy burden. First of all, you need to calm down and decide whether the relationship is connected with love and whether you need to fight for it.
If you are ready to admit your mistakes and take the first step towards reconciliation, then pay attention to the following tips from psychologists on how to apologize without humiliating your dignity:
- remember that immediately after a quarrel, you should not approach with a conversation;
- let yourself and your partner cool down, do something useful and routine, for example, wash the dishes, wipe the floors, wash the clothes;
- only after calming down and understanding the situation, you can start negotiations. Be sure that your man is also experiencing a quarrel and is trying to find its causes.
Ways to apologize
Forgiveness
The most effective and easiest way is to ask for forgiveness from your loved one, hug him tightly and talk about your feelings and experiences.
No guy can resist the touching confession of his beloved. Remember that confessing your mistakes is a very important skill. And if your boyfriend can’t do this, and the relationship is dear to you, approach him first, support him.
Suitable words
Find the right words to start a conversation, remind your loved one of your warm affection for him, of how you value your relationship. In no case do not reproach or blame the guy, so you won’t be able to reconcile for sure if you only quarrel more than before. Try to take a neutral position to smooth the situation.
Saying "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you" or "I'm sorry I feel so bad about our fight" can be a good first step towards reconciliation.
Surprise
If you don't want to say banal things, you can prepare a surprise for your boyfriend. You need to proceed from his preferences, it can be a romantic date in a quiet cozy cafe, movie tickets for the last row or a trip to a match with his favorite team. There are many options.
Even if you are on a tight budget, you can draw a creative poster with love declarations or prepare a beautifully designed box full of love notes.
It is important that you want to please your boyfriend, he will definitely appreciate your sincere efforts, and you will make peace.
Dinner for two
If you live in the same apartment, then a romantic dinner you arranged can be a good first step. Prepare your boyfriend's favorite dishes, decorate everything with candles and other amorous accessories, dress beautifully, and turn on pleasant music.
Be sure of the result, not a single man, even the most offended, can resist such pressure.
How to make up with a guy
By phone
Modern technical developments allow you to contact a person from anywhere at any time. And if your beloved makes contact, you can talk to him on the phone, be soft and touching, speak in a gentle voice.
Remember, no mutual reproaches, this will only aggravate the conflict. Talk about your feelings and experiences, about how you value the relationship with him. This will bring you closer to your cherished goal. 
By SMS
Sometimes it is very difficult to find the right words to describe your feelings, and then SMS comes to the rescue. Here you can not only express your thoughts beautifully, but also use a quote from a poem or a famous saying. Reinforce the message to your beloved with affectionate words, gentle nicknames, emoticons and hearts. Any guy will be pleased to receive such evidence of your love.
After parting
Time passed, and you suddenly realized the full power of the feelings that you have for this person. How to reconcile with an ex? In such a difficult situation, you have to show imagination. Call him, talk on neutral topics, find out how he lives, with whom he meets. Suddenly he is free and also longs to meet you.
You can use an email or social media message by sending a simple “How are you?”.
If I'm to blame
The answer is simple: ask for a meeting and admit your mistake. If the feelings are real, if there is love, then your soul mate will forgive everything. The main thing is to assure him that this will never happen again. Be sincere towards your man, and you will definitely succeed.
If he is guilty
You have every right to be angry and not seek a meeting with the offender. But if he can't make up his mind to take the first step, help him get started. Tell the guy about your experiences, suffering and wait for a response. Anyone who sincerely wants to restore relations will definitely respond to your confession.
After the betrayal
No matter how trite it sounds, both the girl and the guy are to blame for the betrayal, regardless of who allowed himself to relax on the side. You must understand what is the cause of what happened before making any decision.
Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes and decide if it was a mistake that will never happen again, or if it is a constant need of the body.
Listen to your beloved, take time to think, and only then, on a clear mind, make a decision. Remember that a sense of security and stability is very important in a relationship, try not to hurt him.
If he is far away
Long distance love is hard, but apologizing is even harder. There are several ways to make peace with your beloved man at a distance. The possibilities of modern technology will definitely help you in this difficult task. Talk on the phone, write SMS or message on social networks. You can draw attention to yourself with a touching status.
To be sure, use the state mail service, write a real letter and send it in an envelope.
It is not for nothing that all love correspondence used to take place on paper, they say, it conveys the warmth of hearts. In any case, a letter written by your hand will melt the ice in a relationship.
If he does not want to talk and does not make contact
It may happen that the guy is not yet ready for reconciliation and does not answer your calls, emails, refuses to meet. Then you will have to step back and delay the conversation, so you show respect for his feelings. It’s just that your lover needs more time to think about the current situation and resolve the conflict. Be patient.
Astrological analysis
Consider the nuances of behavior with an offended man of a certain zodiac sign.
Aries
Aries man can easily flare up, but just as easily gets out of this state. Therefore, making peace with him will not be difficult. It is enough to wait for the right moment to talk.
Taurus
With a Taurus man, the situation is much more complicated. You will have to make an effort to reunite your loving hearts. Of the proposed methods, a dinner for two in a romantic atmosphere and the preparation of a pleasant surprise will suit you. 
Twin
A twin man should be put up with as quickly as possible, otherwise he may turn his attention to other girls. Call him, invite him on a date in a cozy cafe. Take the first step towards your feelings.
Cancer
Even if the quarrel was his fault, the Cancer man does not admit it. The only way out is to meet him and help him admit his mistakes, improve relations. Find words of support that are right for your lover.
Fish
In order to prevent a quarrel with a Pisces man, one must always show signs of attention to him. But if there is a conflict, give him a chance to be alone, to reflect on what happened. He will let you know when he is ready.
Virgo
It is not difficult to make peace with a virgin man. Let him take a step towards your reunion and admit your guilt, even if the fault lies entirely with him.
Sagittarius
In a case with a Sagittarius, you can act in the form of active negotiations. Express your grievances and listen to the claims of your man. Afraid of losing his authority, your lover can afford to be a little rude, but that's how you love him. 
Scorpion
Scorpios do not forget the insults inflicted on them, so you need to give him the opportunity to offend you in return. Then his heart will melt.
Capricorn
To make contact with a Capricorn guy, you need to prove to him that you have realized your mistake and will never repeat it again. In this case, a closed and offended Capricorn will meet you.
Aquarius
Never describe in a conversation to an Aquarius man how you experienced and what you experienced. He will take it as an attack on him. It is better to be yourself, to be bright and interesting in any company. This will invariably attract your partner to you.
a lion
A man of this zodiac sign loves to be the center of attention. Therefore, it will be good to invite him to visit friends, where you will shine with your beauty and femininity. He will be conquered by you again.
After a fight
How to fight less
Sometimes quarrels are even useful for relationships, allow you to learn more about your partner, refresh feelings. But it would be better if you try to avoid conflict situations.
To do this, you need to remember a few rules and follow them:
Whatever happens, no matter what grievances torment you, let go of this situation and prioritize correctly. If the relationship with your lover is sincere, tender, then you have something to fight for. Feel free to try the ways of reconciliation with a guy described in this article and be happy!
