What happens after a man realizes he's in love

Even before a man realizes that he is in love, processes occur in his mind that are reflected in behavior, gestures and facial expressions. He becomes different, those around him notice, his friends begin to tease him good-naturedly, and passers-by turn to follow him. In most cases, a person whose heart, to use old-fashioned poetic language, is “pierced by Cupid’s arrow,” becomes kinder, he smiles more often, but sometimes an inexplicable sadness comes over him.

It is completely normal to want to take care of the woman who has become the object of this bright feeling, to shield her from some unpleasant circumstances, or, in extreme cases, to simply entertain, make her laugh, or even make her smile. After a man realizes that he is in love, his entire attitude changes. He doesn't know what to do, but he understands that he needs to act. At the same time, many representatives of the stronger sex do not want to discover their feelings before the moment reciprocity is established, fearing a mocking “turn from the gate.” This is how doubt makes us cowards...

But, as popular wisdom says, you can’t hide an sew in a bag. The look of a man in love says more than the love arias from all the brilliant operas, and surpasses in its expressiveness the play of any talented actor. It has everything: hope, fear of irresponsibility, adoration, despair, and hope again. Only a blind and completely heartless woman will not understand that such and such (name) is head over heels in love with her. But even in this case, there will always be someone who will clearly explain this circumstance to her.

From the outside, it is often funny for others to watch how a man realizes that he is in love. This is what is described in movies and novels as an instantly flaring passion. This happens in life, but we are not talking about lust or the play of hormones, but about a serious and all-consuming feeling, and it requires comprehension. The process happens gradually, at first it seems that there is nothing special, you just like the woman, and that’s all. Then an understanding comes, usually defined by the word “disappeared.”

The hussar gestures of a man in love, expressed in unprecedented generosity even among those who were previously known as stingy, are explained by the desire to become indispensable. The desire to enter the life of the woman you love is combined with the hospitably open doors of your own inner world. If there is something to show behind them, then great, but you should also take into account the sad fact that not everyone is interested in this. Of course, you can give smart advice not to rush, but first find out the lady’s preferences, but who would listen to the recommendations of a sober mind when the heart trembles in her presence and yearns when she is not around!

Lovers need other advice; they want to determine how attractive they are to the object of their adoration. And without waiting for wise speeches from friends, relatives and acquaintances, they begin to carefully monitor their appearance, trying very hard to show off their wit and erudition, in general, to stand out. In some ways this is reminiscent of the mating games of peacocks, but what to do, it means that a representative of the male tribe should behave according to the laws of nature.

So, how does a man understand that he is truly in love and not just infatuated? He feels it in his heart. If, when thinking about a woman, a warm wave of tenderness arises in your soul, then yes.