How men fall in love

About love has been written and said many times. But still, it remains one of the greatest mysteries of mankind, and it is not at all easy to understand it. It is difficult to understand why some women are lucky in their personal lives, while others, despite their wonderful qualities and beauty, remain alone. Of course, it is impossible to give one answer for everyone, but if you find out how the stronger sex most often falls in love, what stages it goes through, there is a chance to understand how to react correctly and what to count on at a certain point in time.

How men fall in love point by point

First, they pay attention to external data. They are attracted to the way a woman looks. At the same time, it is very important to remember that each of them likes something different: someone has a thin girl with small breasts, and someone has a woman with appetizing shapes, long or short hair, wide hips or their absence, etc. There are no equal standards of beauty. None of them is able to explain what attracted him. The concept of beauty is formed in men subconsciously, and is not created with the help of the fashion world. Of course, this should not be a call to refuse to take care of yourself. Clean and well-groomed hair, good shoes, neat nails, a clean body smell and charming clothes are necessary to feel attractive and arouse interest in the opposite sex. But it’s definitely not worth it to complex because of some features of appearance. If the type of woman caught his attention, he will not pay attention to what usually embarrassed her about herself. True, while he looks closely before taking the next step.

Then he will begin to show small signs of attention to see if he should count on something. It doesn't even look like a real courtship: "casual" meetings, minor compliments, or the desire to be in the same place as her. And if he understands that he is interested in the girl, then he moves on to another stage. The task of the lady is to assess whether he is interesting to her.
Further, the man will try to secure her consent to the meeting. But for this, he must be sure that he is noticed and they are experiencing at least interest in him. Otherwise, it will only work if you are deeply in love.
After that, he will try to demonstrate all his positive qualities and impress the chosen one. He needs to conquer her. And for this, he will not stint on gifts, moonlight walks, poems or joint visits to entertainment venues. The main feelings for him now are passion and the desire to show themselves in all their glory in order to earn admiration. Unlike men, girls are already beginning to experience more serious feelings, allowing themselves to believe that this is all a sign of a future serious relationship.
As soon as he realizes that he has conquered the chosen one, he will feel safe, because he will be completely sure that she will not leave him anymore. At this moment, he will demonstrate everything to prove how much she was not mistaken in him and that it would be better for her not to find him.
And only after that, having satisfied his passion, he will think about whether it is worth continuing the relationship or whether he is not ready for them yet. At the moment, he will evaluate how his lady suits him, whether she is the one with whom he can spend his whole life, whether he wants children from her, and whether she makes him happy. A man will remember all the quarrels, situations and moments that a woman could have long forgotten about. Passion recedes, and he begins to think more rationally, evaluating everything that happens in the long term. Her human qualities and what his chosen one is able to give him become important to him.
If the representative of the stronger sex answers positively to all the questions posed, then he is really in love. Everything suits him. Even when, according to someone, his girlfriend is far from ideal, he thinks quite the opposite and it is impossible to convince him, he will give vent to feelings and allow himself to plunge into them with his head. In the case of negative answers, very soon he will go in search of another, at best bothering to find a more or less plausible reason why he needs to leave.

Understanding how men fall in love

It is impossible to explain the process of falling in love with any person in detail. It is too personal and based on the spiritual qualities of the one who experiences it. And to find men similar to each other is a business doomed to failure in advance. Therefore, only a few stages can be distinguished here, describing in general terms how this happens in most situations. But even this is enough to learn something not only new, but also important about the opposite sex. After all, knowing when they experience serious feelings, you can correct your own behavior and words in time and do something that will finally win his heart or, with the least loss, get out of relationships that lead nowhere.

If you have read or heard the results of the census, you were most likely surprised by the fact that there are many more women in the country who consider themselves married than married men. And all because even living together, beautifully called “civil” marriage, does not mean that the partner considers himself not free and has a wife that he must provide. For many, this is a convenient way to enjoy the comforts of home while avoiding unnecessary obligations. The only good news is that not all men are also frivolous about those to whom they confessed their love and with whom they decided to live together.

But still, in order to protect yourself and avoid problems in the future, you need to study as carefully as possible who you are dealing with. His aspirations, worldview, principles, how he lives, all the stages that he goes through before he understands what he really feels for a girl. This is what will save the beauties from bitter disappointments and a hasty choice.

Personal life is not a draft that can be rewritten. And those who do not want to regret the mistakes made, seek not only to study the available information, but also to put it into practice, paying attention to the behavior of the stronger sex, to make sure that he is experiencing the feelings that they need.

Before falling in love, a man goes through several stages that are radically different from what women feel. The stronger sex first recognizes the girl who interested him for a long time and only then allows himself to make a decision: to give free rein to feelings or not. It is not surprising, but they are able to keep their emotions to themselves, skillfully controlling them, although it is no secret to anyone that men are less emotional than ladies.

Unlike the beautiful half of humanity, they do not rush into the pool with their heads. It is difficult to explain this without delving into the jungle of psychology, but if we formulate it in simple terms, we can state: this is how their psyche is arranged. And there's nothing you can do about it.

Women subconsciously see a potential husband in each partner, and the stronger sex does not fall in love immediately, but after a certain period of time, or this does not happen at all, even if he has been courting the one who managed to interest him for a long time. There are, of course, exceptions, such as love at first sight. But exceptions usually prove the rule.

After all, girls often write that they already believed that they had met someone who would make them happy, but instead, young people were surprised to notice that this was not at all the case, or even worse, they offered to leave without explaining anything. Such behavior can not only shock and injure, but also affect self-esteem and, as a result, further personal life.

A man in love is ready to move mountains, just to be close to the one who managed to win his heart. But if this is not the case, you should not waste time, it is better to try to immediately forget the one who dared to reassure, and then quit. To stop being a prey, try to change the process of falling in love, which he subconsciously got used to.

The only thing a woman can do in this situation is not to rush things and treat those who have shown interest in her more soberly and calmly, not to build castles in the air, not to prepare for a marriage proposal in advance. Do not try to immediately surround with care, but pause, let him show what kind of person he is. And only then make a decision whether to let it into your heart. This will protect against unnecessary stress, worries, collapsed hopes and the appearance of a convenient, but very insidious idea that all men are very bad people. As the saying goes: "He who is forewarned is forearmed."