How to excite a man by correspondence what to write. How to excite a pen pal so that he starts licking the monitor

Many women, in order to arouse desire in a beloved man at a distance, resort to erotic SMS.

This method is suitable if a woman is far from her lover and wants to remind him of herself.

The proposed material tells how to excite a man with a telephone message, the rules of SMS correspondence, and provides examples of exciting texts.

SMS with erotic content can greatly excite a loved one, and this method of flirting is also suitable for a new acquaintance in order to intrigue a potential partner.

When writing messages, you must follow the following rules:

Avoid spelling mistakes. Even the most subtle game will lose intrigue if the guy runs into endless mistakes.
Don't post too many messages. It has been established that if more than five SMS are sent per day, the partner loses interest in the interlocutor due to excessive obsession.
Be concise and short. Too long texts are difficult to understand and do not contribute to inciting passion. The optimal size is similar to the messages of the interlocutor.
Do not respond to the message of a loved one instantly. A pause of up to thirty minutes will add intrigue and stir up interest.
Pursue a certain goal of the conversation, consistently approaching it with separate messages. This is due to the desire to make jealous, cause intrigue, achieve a meeting, etc.
Transfer the conversation to the topic of the interlocutor himself.
Don't get carried away with emoticons.
Do not rush the development of events, so as not to scare the guy away with excessive frankness.

The nature and subject of messages is determined by the status of the interlocutors.

More details about this in the table:

Note! Along with excessively aggressive sexuality, excessive enslavement is no less harmful, men like women who are not ashamed to appeal to erotica.

How to excite a man with words?

The phrase about love with ears is true not only for women. Words are the most important component of the human mind.

The brain, processing what has been said, illustrates phrases, creating a colorful image. How bright the message will turn out depends on the correct choice of words.

The partner will be excited by such phrases:

I want your body.
How do you feel about dirty sex?
Feel my scent.
The look in your eyes literally undresses me.
I imagine the gentle trembling of your body.
Your breath drives me crazy.
I deify your body, every line.
You have no idea how I get turned on just thinking about you.

It is important for a man to hear words about his desirability and irrepressible sexuality.

Do not neglect exciting phrases in order to achieve harmony in relationships.

Examples of exciting texts

Constancy - does not apply to qualities that contribute to the aggravation of passion. For any man, the beloved woman must constantly change so as not to bore her beloved.

A partner will never think about another if the beloved surprises with originality and originality.

This rule also applies to SMS written by phone.

When writing a message, you should:

Recall the first hugs and kisses in order to evoke past memories and the desire to repeat them.
To say how dear he is, eyes that have not forgotten the taste of the beloved's lips, the smell of hair.
Offer to perform an erotic dance for your beloved.
Describe how you will melt in his arms.
Talk about the desire to see a real man nearby.
Write what you will do with your lover at nightfall.

When compiling playful SMS, interesting facts from the life of great people related to sex, historical events or erotic rites of various nationalities will add originality and piquancy.

Sexuality is inextricably linked with diversity and does not tolerate monotony.

An exciting photo will complement the sexy phrases, depicting a view under a skirt or a deep neckline against the backdrop of a street landscape.

Beautiful SMS in verse and prose

It is not necessary to resort to poetry, but if you have such abilities, it does not hurt to rhyme a few lines.

A few examples of short and funny phrases in prose and poetry:

Clothes off, and on this night, peace and fear are in your hands.
The smell of passion lured, swirled, there was not enough strength to resist.
Withered lips whisper a name: beloved, desired, the only one.
The body trembles beautifully in ecstasy from the touch of your hands, the tongue is looking for lips, and the groan cannot be restrained.
I kiss, I hug, I press to my heart.
I wish passionately, I burn with love, I want to touch you.
When I take off my clothes, I excite your body.
I want to fall asleep in your arms, wishing good night, and wake up with the words - good morning.

Phrases written in your own words are more frank than beautiful, refined, but other people's words. Stay sincere and direct, avoiding jarring phrases.

Do not be shy to show initiative and imagination. Many women in this give the prerogative to men, maintaining inaccessibility and coldness.

But do not think that men are not turned on by sexy women. The situation is absolutely opposite, excessive modesty and coldness will not add passion and will repel a partner.

What can't be written?

Some, when they decide to resort to seduction through SMS for the first time, make common mistakes:

They overload messages with vulgar phrases, mistakenly believing that they will turn on a man. Some part of the stronger sex is subject to such methods, but the majority needs intrigue and understatement, which are much more exciting.
Do not resort to hackneyed phrases, keep originality.
Do not talk about complex and long-term prospects.
Don't exaggerate your own worth.
Don't promise things you can't deliver.
Do not use comparisons with other men, the beloved must be confident in his own uniqueness.
Don't talk about your shortcomings.
Find time for correspondence, but you should not overload your partner with SMS.

Even the longest relationship can excite a correctly spoken and written word.

And in the case of flirting with an unfamiliar man, an original and intriguing SMS contributes to a speedy rapprochement.

Remain unique, a dream girl, the only and desired one, and a properly constructed conversation with SMS messages will help with this.

Three o'clock in the morning, fingers flying across the keyboard, heart pounding, emotion at its peak, with every New Message notification. Familiar? Still would! Correspondence with a guy is a small life ...

Some psychologists say that with the help of emoticons, letters and signs, falling in love with a man is absolutely real. Today I will talk about several tricks on how to please a guy in correspondence and make your meeting take place.

I know a case from the practice of one psychologist: the wife found out that her mistress had taken her husband away from her, simply wishing “Have a nice day” every morning for only a week in correspondence. In fact, the acquaintance began just with this phrase, but what is the result ...

Correspondence with a man is no more difficult than borscht - the main thing is to collect the necessary ingredients and add them to the broth in a certain sequence.

Take a notebook, a pen, write down the "recipe".

Appearances and passwords

I recently read that on average people spend 3 to 7 hours a day on the net - on mobile phones or computers. In this case, ignoring the Internet as a place to meet is just stupid.

It is important to understand how and where to meet. "Thing", but you're looking for a normal and decent man, and not anyhow?

Even there there are "evil" places. For example, Facebook - active, business, VK - is positioned as a social network for teenagers, but Instagram seems to be chosen by everyone.

Dating sites are another matter - everything in them, in principle, is designed to create relationships: you just need to know how not to be deceived and not become a victim of a banal pick-up artist.

But getting to know is half the battle. To interest, establish contact and yourself - you have to try.

Rule #1 Form and Content

Do you think that you only need to check your profile on ? No. Beer, naked breasts, bouquets of roses or a selfie from the gym. Any of these photos can tell a lot more about you than you can imagine.

An elementary image search and Google will give you a man with giblets. In Viber and WhatsApp, the same story: agree that when we see only the status and photo, then we judge only by these points.

Vanilla statuses like "I'm hard to find and easy to lose" do not speak of your value, but of primitive thinking and an excess of free time.

Therefore, before starting a profile in or getting to know each other online, go through the published photos and check whether all of them match your request on .

If you would already be ashamed to show your profile to your future husband, consider that you failed the face control.

Rule number 2 Adequate initiative

Give a guy a like first?! Yes, it's the same from the side of the girl. And no, he will not think that you are obsessive, asking for it, etc. To be the first to write: “Hello ...” is not a crime.

If we transfer the same picture to reality: you would take the initiative when you smiled, looked into your eyes or something like that.

While you are sitting and thinking about how he will take the initiative, another one will show it. And then write, do not write, the chance will be missed.

Do not believe that one way or another fate will bring you together. When you wait a long time, you get the best of the leftovers - I have said this more than once.

Yes, go first. Like and write.

But remember, in the first message it is best to either make a compliment or ask a question that will be impossible not to answer.

And this question is not “How are you?”. And you don’t have to upload a story of your kind to a man, a story about 72 hobbies and proudly twitter about your “ .

Every person wants to be interested in them. This is a cyclical reaction: you show interest - it is corrected in response.

The give-and-take balance is important on , after all, relationships begin already in the first SMS communication.

Act like a woman: carefully and unobtrusively. Postpone the desire to show off a sharp mind until better times. Start with a simple “Hi. An amazing photo with a sunset in Barcelona, tell us what other cities have you been to?

This will be quite enough for him to understand that you are educated, not banal and interested. On top of that, a beautiful photo and the first step has been taken.

If he answers, he is interested. Keep communication up to date. If not, the answer is already.

Rule #3 Emoticons

Do you know how many emoticons are on your smartphone? More than 1500. And if you still do not use this tool to influence the male heart, then you risk being left out of work.

It seems that all these cute hearts, cats, flowers were invented just to by correspondence. And it's not all about color.

And the fact that a man best understands a woman through feelings and emotions. And when you write "Thank you for the evening. I feel the happiest!” and at the end you add a smiley - here it warms his heart.

When it comes to texting, emoticons are a cold weapon to melt his heart. They are not in vain called "emoji" - they express emotions.

But don't go overboard with this either. The world is tired of dry "SPS" and "OK", but the message in which the meaning of the text behind the emoticons is not visible ... is also not the best option.

Make your correspondence emotional and lively and you will see - he will look forward to each next one.

If you have already met in life and the man is close to you, you know for sure .

Send him something like, "Honey, I'm on my way out. I just can’t choose underwear: say red or black? (a selfie would come in handy here) and add a kiss emoticon. Do not thank. :)

Rule #4 Competent does not mean normal

Many women, making conclusions about a man, miss one very important thing - literacy.

First, it is a direct indicator of the intellectual level. Secondly, what to focus on is not always correct.

Remember one thing: very literate does not mean normal, and normal does not mean exceptionally literate.

A decent man saves his time on things like texting. He can ignore capital letters and sometimes punctuation marks, therefore it is better to draw conclusions not by commas, but by actions.

And the main indicator that a man is ready to withdraw to the level of reality - a meeting.

And you, too, do not play the philological maiden, if in life you are far from her.

As with everything, moderation is important here. It makes no sense to put up with "assipki". A decent man is likely to have an equally decent job.

When instead of “date”, he writes “date” - think about what kind of work they will tolerate such an illiterate employee.

But if he made only a couple of mistakes over the entire period of your communication, and you have already written him off, I can say one thing for sure - it will be difficult for you .

Try to write correctly and avoid typos, but do not go in cycles. Believe me, literacy is not the most important quality in a man.

Rule #5 Problem Girl

Even the most trusting dialogue can be spoiled for one or two, and then complain "a !».

Body language does not work in correspondence, therefore even the interlocutor will not be able to recognize irony just like that if you do not put a smiley at the end.

At the stage of correspondence, problems can have only one character: “Listen, but you don’t know in the center?”, “Can you tell me how to deal with …”

The same goes for your shortcomings. There is a category of women who are very fond of focusing attention on them in the spirit: “Yes, I am like that!”.

Rule #6 Simple Conventions

There are moments that fuel the interest of a man in correspondence with you. First of all, it is attention to his life and the ability to present his own.

Learn to ask in correspondence , those to which it is impossible to answer "Yes-No". This will give you food for thought.

Along with the answer, you will receive a question addressed to you and a chance to tell something exciting.

It is not necessary for a man to be online when you write. You can make a traditional good morning wish. A simple example: "Good morning! Have a good day! (smile)."

Here you have the ground for creativity: think of a more interesting way to wish a good day and see the reaction of a man, something new every morning.

In the evening, you can ask the opposite: “How was your day?”. This question does not require a detailed report and the man will definitely answer something.

A separate issue is the duration of the correspondence. Do not stay online, especially at night. Lack of sleep does not decorate a woman and says that in the evening she has nothing to do.

It is better to tell a man about how productive you spent the day, what interesting things happened in your life, what you read, watch and what you are fond of - briefly and emotionally. And don't forget to do .

And forget about the question "What are you doing?" every two hours. For the most part, it's annoying and distracting.

Rule number 8 Regime, framework, familiarity

Make sure that your communication does not begin solely according to your . Understand, if a man does not want to write himself, you are no longer interesting to him.

Therefore, keep track of the mode in which you respond to each other. Ideally, he writes, you write. Keep track of how long he replies to the message: instantly, within a day or once a week. This also speaks volumes.

Now about the framework.

Gone are the days when sex was taboo. And even at the stage of correspondence, you can talk about your preferences, but if a man starts communication with this - .

If it goes beyond what is permitted, the same thing can be said in completely different ways, and if a man writes: “Kitty, I want to lick your socks,” he is inadequate. Finish your correspondence.

And if he talks, for example, about his sexual temperament in the spirit: “I would like to know . I love to dominate. Tell me what you like." You can also briefly describe and track the reaction.

A worthy man will always appreciate how calmly, gently and femininely you either move off the topic, or frankly answer such a question.

In general, pay attention to such things - it will allow you to avoid an unpleasant aftertaste from correspondence with preoccupied, gigolos, rogues, etc.

epistolary genre

As you can see, the tools to on the Internet a dime a dozen. Here it is important to keep abreast and learn to feel your man literally through the screen.

What are the conclusions?

do not be afraid of initiative;
remember that correspondence also requires time management;
show genuine interest;
behave like a woman;
forget about stereotypes;
don't impose.

All this will work if your goal is to build first in correspondence, then transfer them to reality. And my advice to you - do not stay too long on the other side of the screen, try to go on a date with a man.

If a man does not call, preferring to sit out for months, think about it - are you on the way with this man?

Don't waste time
your Yaroslav Samoilov

To excite and seduce a guy, it is not at all necessary to be at arm's length. Spicy messages will warm up the interest of a man and make him burn with desire.

Do you think it's impossible? Then answer the question: why are “phone sex” services and intimate chats so popular?

Men do not see the interlocutor, but start up for one or two!

A girl does not have to write romance novels - one well-aimed message can awaken a desire in a man and liberate his fantasy.

We will tell you how to seduce a pen pal and make him think only of you!

How to excite a guy by correspondence?

Men are not as complex as it seems at first glance. To make them go crazy with excitement, sometimes one spicy photo or a “tasty” message is enough.

And now we pick up the phone and get used to the role of an insidious seductress.

All girls like this method, because when meeting live it is difficult to step over your complexes and say “I want you!”. But the Internet or mobile communication makes this task easier.

Before writing ten SMS a day for excitement, consider the important points.

Right time and place. The ideal option is morning or evening. Imagine the situation: your message comes during a meeting.

A man will either simply put the phone aside, or still read it and find himself in an awkward position.

Yes, you have achieved a result, but it is unlikely that a person will be satisfied with a "tent in his pants" at the most inopportune time.

Get your partner interested. No need to compose a porn novel or write obscene things. A good option to start with is a light flirt.

Do not forget about male nature: he is a hunter, it is important for him to achieve, receive, conquer. And if the prey itself goes into his hands and immediately offers unforgettable sex - this is not interesting.

Don't use cliches. The Internet, of course, is a storehouse of wisdom - draw with a ladle! Just don't forget to filter the information.

A good result can be achieved if you write a message from yourself, express your thoughts and desires.

A copied rhyme or a stereotyped “I want you, I always want you” is the level of a schoolgirl, not an adult sexy woman.

Confidence. Trusting your sexual fantasies to the first person you meet is stupid. Such knowledge can be used against you: for example, you will quarrel, and the person will post your correspondence on the Internet or send it to friends.

Therefore, do not spend a "session" of intimacy with a person whom you have known for only a couple of days.

What to write to a guy to turn him on?

Do you know what is the main disadvantage of flirting via SMS? You do not see the partner's response. Nevertheless, this technique of seducing men is still popular.

If you are in a relationship. In this case, getting a pen pal is easy. Remember the last meeting, the night spent together, the pleasure you received... Remember? Liked?
Just imagine how your loved one will turn on if he receives an SMS like: “I would really like to make love to you again. Just the thought of your body excites me…”
Promising Hints. Express your desire, but leave room for imagination.
“I bought a new set of lace lingerie. You will like it” or “I look forward to our meeting.
You know, I take strip dancing lessons, do you want to test my skills?
Praises. Yes, yes, do not forget to extol his masculine qualities. The stronger sex also "loves with its ears" and easily swallows the spicy bait.
Write to the guy that you are crazy about his physical form, skills in bed, the last foreplay.
The pictures that will flash before his eyes as he reads will complete what he started.

What can be written in short sms

1. "You have no idea what thoughts are roaming in my head when I remember our sex marathon."

2. "Mmm, just looking at your bare-chested photo turns me on as hell."

3. “I have so many sexual fantasies. Do you want details?"

4. “I take off my dress before going to bed and I can’t reach the zipper. Do you want to help, like last time?”.

5. “Let's take a bath together. Just me, you and no clothes."

6. “My body needs your attention. I will wait for you in bed naked.

7. "When you kiss me, my body is a continuous erogenous zone."

8. “Always wanted to try role-playing games. And I have a little nurse's robe in my closet."

9. "When you're at home, I decided not to wear clothes."

10. “I bought new underwear. I really need a masculine look."

11. “I want to do yoga so I can try new poses.”

12. “I miss you. Every cell of my body remembers your caresses and kisses.

13. "Oh, I already imagine how stormy and passionate our evening will be."

14. “I bought strawberries, cream and erotic lingerie. Which dessert do you prefer?"

15. “Alone in the evenings so lonely. I think of you. And you know, my thoughts are not the most modest ... ".

If you want to excite a man, SMS is what you need. It is a powerful weapon that should not be abused.

Remember, messages are not a 50 Shades of Gray book or a guide to finding your erogenous zones.

Your desires and feelings can be expressed in a shorter way. Men are lazy creatures, and they won't read a ten-page message.

Erotic pictures

We want to note right away: unfamiliar men do not need to send such photos. They can be a great excuse for blackmail. In addition, in the event of a breakup, the offended partner may make them public. You don't want to become a porn site star, do you?

But if you want to diversify relationships, this method is ideal. Guys are much more easily turned on by what they see than by talking about sex.

Therefore, if you trust your partner, the game is worth the candle! An erotic selfie with a banana or in lace lingerie will blow him away.

If possible, book a professional photo session. Now there are many photographers who work in the nude style.

You will get high-quality, retouched pictures and will not worry about bad angles or too wide hips.

You can do a themed photo session. For example, rent a maid or nurse costume, wear high heels and cute stockings, and play a little on camera.

Sexologists conducted a survey: in the fantasies of 80% of men there is a strict teacher, a sexy nurse and a sweet maid!

So, by trying on such an image, you will not be mistaken, but on a man you will produce the effect of an exploding bomb!

Blatant frankness is not needed. Lace stockings, peeking out from under a short dressing gown, leaves more room for imagination than naked buttocks.

Whips and whips are also best left in the sex shop. A woman should be alluring, but inaccessible. Then the primitive instincts awaken in the representatives of the stronger sex: to conquer, to achieve.

For girls, for whom exposure is just a job, men can look on the Internet or in a strip club.

Webcam talk and naughty videos

If you blush like a poppy when watching an erotic scene in a movie and can't bring yourself to say the word "dick" or "vagina", this method is not for you.

Frank conversations in front of a webcam can be conducted by women who are confident in their irresistibility and sexuality.

If the conversations are boring, you can make a surprise by recording a short video. No, we're not talking about masturbating on camera. Be more subtle.

Put on a lacy set of underwear or a translucent peignoir and sit in front of the camera. And then innocently, as if by the way, ask: “How do you like my new clothes? I chose them thinking of you."

Believe me, the first thoughts of a man will be: to come, rip off these sexy clothes from you and take possession of you.

Are you good at dancing? Well, this is a real trump card in a relationship. Arrange a striptease, breaking off the recording at the most interesting ... Or dance an erotic dance.

Your man will simply stick to the monitor and will salivate! Show how erotic you are in the shower or gently caress your breasts in a bathtub full of foam!

In the course of a conversation, you can use a proven and effective method: eat erotically and slowly.

Banana, strawberries with cream or ice cream, on which your nimble tongue flickers, will bring the interlocutor to ecstasy!

Now we can move on to the discussion of hidden fantasies. Just don’t get carried away: if some topics are taboo for you, it’s better to avoid them or tactfully move away from the conversation.

Virtual communication relaxes. Sitting in front of the monitor, it is easier to indulge in fantasies and liberate yourself than in real life.

In your efforts to quickly excite the interlocutor, you do not need to promise a threesome or BDSM games, if in reality you are not ready for this.

Men may not remember that they promised to take out the trash or go shopping. But the memory department responsible for sex and everything connected with it is well developed in them. So, when the “hour of reckoning” comes, you will have to answer for your words.

Watch an erotic film together and discuss it. Describe what you liked the most, what you would like to repeat.

Feel free to wish! Next to a self-confident passionate woman, any man loses his head!

Draw the right conclusions

You must be interesting not only in correspondence, but also in real life. Otherwise, the man will experience dissonance: in the chat there is an odalisque and a femme fatale, but in fact - a puritan who does not recognize other poses, except for the missionary!

Discover the woman in you: beautiful, sexy, arousing desire! Bring variety to your intimate life!

Many women don't even know their own body! And now we are not talking about anatomy, but about those very “hot spots” that are responsible for pleasure.

After all, not all women have breasts or necks that are sensitive to caresses! As a result, ladies consider themselves frigid and inferior, because "they read that these are erogenous zones."

Learn to please yourself and your partner, experiment, discover new facets of intimate life.

After all, sex is like a dance. To make it pleasant and bewitching, you need a response and diligence from both partners!

Many women believe that a man should take the initiative in any area of relationships. The behavior of a lady should be like an impregnable queen.

On the one hand, the approach is correct and corresponds to stereotypical ideas about relationships, but on the other hand, men with such ladies get bored.

Any man likes when a lady starts flirting with him, but how to do it if the darling constantly disappears at business meetings, business trips.

For this, short SMS messages were invented that excite the imagination of a man at a distance.

Exciting SMS to a man in your own words

Most inexperienced women in sexual correspondence often do a common misconduct - they try to overwhelm a man with vulgar messages.

From assertive behavior, the young man does not know whether to continue communication further. Of course, there are men who love this behavior, but many of the stronger sex prefer to keep the intrigue.

Home the task of the girl is to interest the guy and arouse interest in the person so that he instantly wants to be close to his beloved.

Therefore, it is better to start correspondence with an unobtrusive declaration of love in your own words. Further, it is recommended to move on to more explicit messages, backed up by intimate photos.

Examples of short phrases and mind-boggling SMS:

Day all the time, thoughts of you do not leave my head. I dream to find myself nearby, tightly pressed and passionately kissed!
Can't imagine how much I missed. It seems to me that your scent accompanies me everywhere.
Now morning, but I'm looking forward to the evening with great impatience. I dream of relaxing my body as gently as I did yesterday.
Going to sleep and I can’t decide: to take off the cute black stockings, delicately fitting slender legs?
Or do not touch them - will you come running and help to pull them off? - a defiant phrase can be written at night.
wanted sleep, but failed. I close my eyes and see your inflated beautiful body: various vulgarities arise in my head.
Want caress your body and enjoy passionate kisses.
come tonight, if you want to see a sweet and long striptease performed by a priestess of love.
Darling, Let's take a shower together tonight, shall we? Me and you, and a minimum of clothes!
Eat it's a great idea to strap you to the bed and do whatever you want!
Want to see your naked body on a soft bed.
Imagine me in my favorite black lace lingerie. I will meet you today!
When caress my body, I'm going crazy. I have never met big strong and gentle hands.
So I want you so much that I'm going crazy now.
Want night to extend the pleasure that we started this morning.
I am now completely naked. I'm bored at home and I'm alone.
Darling, I cooked your favorite dish, and I realized how much I missed you. I have already rented a Japanese schoolgirl costume and cognac - I'm waiting in the evening.
read an article on how you can please a guy. Come - let's try!
Bought new underwear - a male assessment is needed.
I decided no longer wear clothes at home - I'm waiting for a reaction.
Today I signed up for yoga to get my heels to my head - I think you don't mind.

It is worth noting: the longer the couple is in touch, the more diverse it will be to invent words.

At the initial stage of meetings, a young man has only to imagine a girl without underwear - and he is ready to run to her.

Vulgar SMS to a guy to cheer up

To cheer up your loved one, it is not necessary to call him every hour. It is enough to write depraved or vulgar SMS to a guy.

After reading the exciting text, he immediately wants to be next to the chosen one. Frank messages can be written in prose or poetry - it depends on the girl's fantasy.

Note! To cheer up and not only it, you can reinforce the message with an erotic photograph - it will come in handy during a hard day's work.

The proposed short messages will delight a loved one, he will have a desire to do what is indicated in the text.

Do not be surprised if, after SMS, a call follows with passionate words:

sms	Description
Don't worry, I can handle all your desires	Suitable if the guy has to come to visit or when the husband returns home
If you need a sex slave - call!	This SMS is optimal at the initial stage of dating, if both partners know why they are meeting
I feel very excited. I want to make love with you	Suitable for married women, for girls who are in the role of a bride - a man is unlikely to refuse a tempting offer
Not in the mood for sex right now, but we can have it fast and passionate	Suitable as a good night wish if people live separately. The man will have a desire to immediately come to visit
I want you to hug me under my light home dressing gown	Inviting words will make even a married husband pay attention to his wife
I'll wear any erotic clothes you want!	If experiments are constantly taking place in a couple, it is worth trying to send this SMS
Maybe you want to take my virginity? I'm ready!	A message should be sent after careful consideration of a serious decision.
There are only thoughts in my head - to lie with you in a warm bed	Suitable for a new acquaintance and for married couples
I want to see, hear and touch you	An ambiguous message will help excite a guy's fantasy
Dominate me, I want to obey strong male hands	Characterizes a woman as a passionate lover. Men from loving ladies are crazy

Carefully pick up messages if there was a minor quarrel the day before. Romantic correspondence and a delicious dinner, combined with lovemaking, will help to establish a connection.

Become available to your beloved man, then he will be able to appreciate the feelings and continue a long, exciting conversation in the bedroom.

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Words how to excite a man quickly

Words also play an important role. Contrary to the popular belief that only women "love with their ears", guys are also not against verbal manifestation. There are three main secrets that work flawlessly:

1. A story about erotic dreams and fantasies. And it does not matter whether the partners will implement them or not. A captivating description is enough, and preferably with an appropriate intonation.

2. Memories of joint sexual moments. They will help to visually excite the imagination, and then a matter of technique and desire.

3. The desire of a partner. If a woman shows her secret desires at least in words, perhaps even takes the situation into her own hands, this will not leave the guy (or older companion) indifferent and the response will not be long in coming.

These methods can be used not only in a cozy home environment, but also in a public place (on the street, in a theater, in a restaurant, etc.) or in a car (it helps to seduce even a lazy aged partner, excites thoughts (fantasy) and body).

Ways to excite a man before sex massage

Erotic massage is a whole art, but it helps to make the guy really want his soul mate. It differs from the standard in the absence of clothing on both partners (partial or complete) and the impact on erogenous zones. The alternation of temperatures (cold and hot) allows you to enhance receptor perception. Try using candle wax (you can substitute with a hair dryer) or pieces of ice during the process, but be careful not to harm your partner.

Another trick is affection. Start by touching with your hands (you need to touch it gently, gradually increasing the pace), connecting your lips (kiss) and finally move on to oral caresses. Some guys like a little anal stimulation (proximity to the prostate helps here, which in moderate doses also leads to arousal and prolongs pleasure).

How to excite a man with a look

A languid, inviting look with inviting gestures melted more than one male heart. Try it and you, it will definitely bear fruit. But do not forget that the eyes are involved in this matter. And this means that they need to be distinguished. We are not talking about a ton of cosmetics. Eyelashes are important here, preferably long and fluffy. They give a special charm and make the look mysterious and exciting. And such a decoration can excite her boyfriend not only with the help of an alluring look (after all, he is only the beginning), but also by influencing the skin of a man, and the more erogenous the area of influence, the better: ears, chest, stomach and, of course, a penis. There is an erotic technique that has the name "butterfly", its essence is touching the body with eyelashes with blinking. Try it! You will not regret!

How to excite a man in bed

The arousal technique is an art that must be mastered if you want to maintain attraction for a long time. Remember the folk truth, which says that it is impossible to keep a man with borscht. The main thing is that he feels satisfied. And in this version, even a difficult character will not repel him for a long time. Although you should not discount the impact of food: celery, oysters, liver, bananas, caviar, bananas, chocolate and figs. Include these products in your menu and the result will surely please you.

Ways to excite a man in bed with touch

The tactile effect on the body of your boyfriend, which is able to turn on a man in a few minutes, has several basic forms:

Hands/fingertips/hugs;
lips/kisses/tongue;
parts of the body (breast / nipples, eyelashes, thighs, labia, etc.);
third-party items (silk scarf, feathers, etc.);
food (soft juicy fruit, whipped cream, etc.).

And here it is important to influence the erogenous areas:

The spine (the most erogenous place of the back from the middle to the coccyx to the hollow between the buttocks);
ears;
breast;
belly and so on.

Sexologist's advice - do not switch too quickly from one zone to another (act in stages), this can cause a partner to feel a lack of pleasure (not complete satisfaction).

How to excite a man to the maximum with a kiss in bed

The most frank way to excite your boyfriend is a blowjob. But it is better to approach him gradually, starting to shower with passionate kisses from the neck, slowly and gradually sinking downstream. Kisses do not have to be very gentle, alternate them with light biting or sucking. This will have the desired effect.

How to excite a sleeping man with your hands

If a man is tired and falls asleep, and the partner has not satisfied her desire, you can gently wake him up. The easiest way even for a sleeping man was and remains a blowjob (a universal method to raise libido to the limit even if there are problems with erection), but what if a man sleeps on his stomach? Stroke his buttocks gently touching them, you can even slightly squeeze and unclench them (a useful tip that allows you to deliver maximum pleasure for a young or older or even old partner).

You can also act on the junction of the hips and spine (there are nerves here, which facilitates the process of excitation), you can gently act on the anus. Include kisses in the process, and the man will not be able to continue his serene rest (he will want you even in a dream) and will definitely “connect” to the process even if there is a weak potency (for example, in a 50-year-old man, if problems with potency have gone far or it is completely absent, it is better to contact a specialist and get advice (you need to follow his recommendations to prolong the joy of intimacy)). Do not forget to kiss him gently in the process.

Ways to excite a man from a distance

No matter how surprising it may seem, there are also plenty of ways to excite your boyfriend at a distance, no matter how old he is. Especially considering modern opportunities and technologies: telephone conversation, Skype, SMS messages, etc., etc. And, if everything is clear with Skype (virtual online sex), then we suggest dwelling on telephone options that are not supported by visual communication.

How to excite a man by SMS so that he is very excited

Here it is important to “put pressure” on the most intimate. Inform your boyfriend with text messages about the passion burning in the body, sexual desire. The text in the letter can be written in any form: poetry, prose. If you don't have inspiration to create your own masterpieces, you can use books (quotes from women's novels, for example), statuses or quotes, etc. Here is one of the poetic examples for correspondence: “I want to give myself all with passion, I have already put on my underwear. I am waiting. You play with me in the night and rule, I go to bed as a slave. These methods work flawlessly regardless. What zodiac sign does the partner belong to: Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Taurus, Capricorn, Leo, etc.

How to excite a man on the phone

In this option, not only mentions of your sexual desire will come in handy, but also a languid voice (it allows you to quietly arouse even the elderly and increase interest). You can play the game "sex on the phone" (use a kind of role-playing game in the context of a guy - a girl, for example) or send your chosen one a few photos of erotic content with your participation. In a word, connect your imagination and you will definitely succeed (this method can even bring you to orgasm)! In such a situation, a man will be in a hurry to go home after work and from meeting with friends.